What to say you do when you do it all

A series in three parts

“So what are you going to do? Everything, is my guess,” Nora Ephron famously told the graduating class of Wellesley in her 1996 commencement speech. 

That same year, I gave a graduation speech at my all-girls elementary school in San Francisco. Nora quoted Yogi Berra in hers (“When you see a fork in the road, take it”); I quoted ABBA in mine (“What a joy…